When it comes to designing a wedding that will match your personal style, you want to work with wedding vendors who can mirror and celebrate that flair too.

One of the hardest aspects of writing your own wedding vows is not knowing where to begin. How are you supposed to find inspiration? What aspects about your relationship should you talk about?

If you’re struggling to write your wedding vows, turn to your maid of honor for help. Wedding vow writing might not fall under the typical maid of honor responsibilities but she’s your hidden weapon.

Is designing a personalized and custom wedding ceremony on your wedding planning checklist? If so, you’re likely struggling with how to balance those traditional requests from your family members while also breaking the mold so your wedding feels like you.

What feelings come to mind when you think about writing your wedding vows?

Stress? Anxiety? Panic?

Every bride I’ve worked with has felt at least one of these emotions when they imagined having to write their own wedding vows.

This is where I come in to help. I’m a wedding vow writer—AKA your panic attack antidote. I collaborate with stressed out brides and anxious grooms to calm nerves while putting their heart into words.

As you plan your wedding, you’ll work with several wedding vendors. From hiring a wedding planner to researching calligraphers for your wedding invitations—you know who you need to hire to help with the various parts of your wedding day.

But there’s one wedding vendor title that has likely escaped you—the wedding vow writer.